What is it that we have to give up? We waste our lives if we try to dominate the mind and force us to renounce material pleasures and lusts? Or force us our desires or our desire to actions that lead to pain and suffering? A very interesting and humorous insights from the everyday life of spiritual self-mastery by His Holiness Kadamba Kanana Swami. He told from Bhagavat Gita Chapter 03, Text 39, in ISKCON Temple on Jan, 2012